The Meaning of Love – The first Step towards Love

Saturday, 22 April 2017 14:38 Written by
The Meaning of Love, Love is an encounter, an orgasmic match, between death and life. If you do not know love, then you will ignore the meaning of life. - The picture shows the love tie between Paolo and Francesca; Dante, who could never love Beatrice (love in the future), is baffled by the two lovers (love in the present) who gracefully spin, driven by the wind, and surrender to it, as they surrendered to love when they were still alive. Francesca turns to Dante and says: "Amor ch'a nullo amato amar perdona" - Those he has never loved, love forgives... and, as you see, it still holds me." Francesca does not feel guilty for having yielded to an overwhelming feeling ... (She has nothing to be forgiven, she never loved her husband, does not feel guilty), she does not ask for forgiveness, but rather accepts her condition and claims the great feeling which caused it. Dante is moved by the love of Paolo and Francesca (here and now), since they are aware and proud of their feeling. In spite of Dante's medieval interpretation of the world and his decision to send them to hell, they are the only characters in the Divine Comedy who have not been changed by death: they love each other as they used to do when they were alive. It is worth stressing that Francesca reflects the act (Love) instead of the performer of the same act. The Meaning of Love, Love is an encounter, an orgasmic match, between death and life. If you do not know love, then you will ignore the meaning of life. - The picture shows the love tie between Paolo and Francesca; Dante, who could never love Beatrice (love in the future), is baffled by the two lovers (love in the present) who gracefully spin, driven by the wind, and surrender to it, as they surrendered to love when they were still alive. Francesca turns to Dante and says: "Amor ch'a nullo amato amar perdona" - Those he has never loved, love forgives... and, as you see, it still holds me." Francesca does not feel guilty for having yielded to an overwhelming feeling ... (She has nothing to be forgiven, she never loved her husband, does not feel guilty), she does not ask for forgiveness, but rather accepts her condition and claims the great feeling which caused it. Dante is moved by the love of Paolo and Francesca (here and now), since they are aware and proud of their feeling. In spite of Dante's medieval interpretation of the world and his decision to send them to hell, they are the only characters in the Divine Comedy who have not been changed by death: they love each other as they used to do when they were alive. It is worth stressing that Francesca reflects the act (Love) instead of the performer of the same act. Picture: Gustave Dorè - Paolo and Francesca in hell 1861. Divine Comedy - Inferno - Canto V.

Love is an encounter, an orgasmic match, between death and life.

If you do not know love, then you will ignore the meaning of life.

You were born, you have lived, you have died ... but you still ignore it.

You know nothing about the in-between: love! This interval is the highest peak.

There are the four steps towards love.

The first: to be here and now;

(i.e. to be present) because love is possible only here and now.

You cannot love in the past (it is dead!)

Most people live in the past, relying on their memories and past love.

Other people will love in the future; but this is wrong as well.

These are ways to avoid love.

Love is possible only in the present, since this is the only moment when death and life meet ... inside the dark interval hidden inside you.

That dark interval is always present ... it always exists, it never ceases to be!

It is neither past nor future.

Overthinking - thinking is always connected either to the past or to the future – will divert your energies from the ability to feel.

And feeling is here and now.

If your energies move within the pattern of your thinking, they will not be enough to allow you to enter the feeling spheres ... and love cannot exist.

Therefore, the first step is to be here and now (in the present time.)

The future (whenever he will come) and the past (which does not come back) both rely on the above-mentioned concept: any wrong thinking (relating to memories or regrets) destroys the feeling: over time, those who are too obsessed with thinking tend to forget their heart.

Over time, those who are immersed in thinking start to follow a path where feeling has no voice.

If you do not listen to your feeling, the latter will leave you soon.

Millions of people live in these conditions, i.e. they neglect their heart.

They simply regard it as a pump.

They just focus on their head.

But the head is an end of the body; it is necessary, it acts as an amazing tool, but must be used as a servant.

The head should not be our master.

When the head is the master and the heart is left aside, men live, die, but will never know God, since they are not familiar with love.

At first glance, the same dark interval looks like love ... and when we completely surrender to it, it becomes God.

Love is the beginning of God ... or God is the highest peak of love.

 

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The fourth step: be nothing.

When you start thinking about being someone, you block yourselves; thus, love cannot flow.,

Love can flow only from that one who is nothing.

Love only live in nothing.

When you are empty, love is present.

When you are full of ego, love disappears.

Love and the ego cannot live together.

Love can exist with God, but not with ego, because love and God are synonymous. 

Love and ego cannot hand in hand.

So, let's be nothing.

Nothing is the source of everything; in nothing borns the infinite….

Nothing is God.

Nothing means "nirvana".

Be nothing … and in being nothing, you will get.

Being someone, you will miss the point; being nothing, you will come home.

Never as it is in this age it is important to love.

Because when we truly love, we can deeply know other people and ourselves.

The body can surrender to the injuries of the age, but our spirit, when it loves, or better when it knows how to love - always free - will allow us to escape the hellish cycle of unforeseen events, in which generations after generations, the human being makes same mistakes.

Even though thoughts are repeated identical in human life, there is an entity capable of changing destinies: it is Love!

However, we must understand how to love.

So, this is the third step: sharing.

When the negative is present, keep it for you

When the positive is present, share it.

Normally people share their negativity; they never share their positivity.  

Humanity is simply stupid.

When people are happy, they never share their happiness: they are extremely miserly!

Instead, when they are unhappy are extremely generous: in this case, they are very happy to share.

When people smile, they economise; they smile but with reserve.

Conversely, when he is angry, he goes totally angry.

The third step is to share positivity.

This will bring your love to flourish like a river that is born of your heart: and when you share, your love will begin to emerge.

I heard a very strange phrase by Jorge Borges. Listen:

 

Give is holy for dogs.

I throw pearls to the pigs.

Because the most important thing is giving!

 

You will have heard the exact opposite: do not throw anything to dogs, do not give pearls to pigs, because they cannot understand.

In fact, the relevant thing is not "what you are giving" pearls, holiness and love, and "to whom" you are giving it: this is not important.

The important thing is giving.  

When you have something, give it!

Love is not a property to be accumulated, it means irradiate, it is a fragrance to share.

More you share and more you possess; less you share and less you possess.

Therefore, the third step towards love is to share your own positivity, share your vitality, share everything you have: whatever you have in your hands, never accumulate it.

Beware I'm not talking about material things, material goods; Then: share your wisdom, share your prayer, your happiness, your love ... share it!

Obviously, if there is no one, share with dogs, with cats, with flowers, trees, stones ... but share.

What matters is giving.

Accumulate poison the heart.

Everything that is accumulated is poisonous.

If you share, your body will be free from poisons.

Then when you give, don’t worry if the giving is or is not one-sided.

Do not even expect a thank you! You will not be disappointed.

Sharing is one of the greatest spiritual virtues, one of the greatest virtues!

The second step towards the love is to learn changing your poison into honey

Many people love, but their love is deeply contaminated by poison: hate, jealousy, anger, possessiveness.

Your love is surrounded by a thousand and a poison!

Love is something delicate: you think of anger, hate, possessiveness, jealousy ... how will it ever survive love?

First people move in their heads and forget the heart: most people do it. 

Secondly a minority still lives a little in the heart, but makes another mistake; that little flame of love is surrounded by jealousy, hate, rage, and a thousand and a poison.

In this way, the whole journey becomes bitter.

Love is the ladder between the paradise and the hell, but that ladder has two directions: you can go up or down.

In case these poisons are present, the ladder will take you down and you will go to the hell, you will never reach the paradise!

Instead of getting a melody, your life will become hell; A constant contrast, a deafening traffic; A rumor that will make you go crazy ... a chaos of noises, no harmony.

You will always live in madness... .

 

Then, the second thing to remember is to learn how to change your poisons into honey.

And how to transform them?

There is a very simple process.

Actually, defining it “transformation” is not correct, because you it is not necessary to do anything: simply you should sit down in silence and observe.

Do not judge: do not be against or in favor.

Do not favor it, do not repress it.

You just observe it. Being patient, just observe what happens… let it go up.

Remember one thing: never try to change your mood, when poisons possess you, simply wait. 

The time comes when poison begins to turn into something else ... this is one of the fundamental laws of life: everything changes continually in its opposite, you have periodic changes - a good man becomes evil, and a bad man becomes good; the saint has times when he is sinner and the sinner lives moments of holiness.

Ypu should just wait.

Do not ever act when anger is at its peak; otherwise you will regret it, and you will create a chain of reactions that will produce a karma (cause-effect law always working in life).

The idea of falling victim to karma is all here: do something when you are in a negative state and you will find yourself in a chain of endless reactions.

When you are in a negative condition, you always do something, also the other one becomes negative and he is ready to do something: the negative creates additional negative, the anger generates anger, Hostility creates other hostility, in an infinite chain of reactions ... and people are mutually tangled ... and the thing goes on! 

Wait.

When you are angry is the time to meditate.  

Don’t lose this moment; anger creates in yourself immense energy ... it can be destructive.

However, the energy is neutral; the same energy that destroys can also create.  

Wait.

The same energy that hat can upset, can give life ... just wait.

Waiting without hurry, one day you will have a great surprise: you will see inner change, anger relaxes, energy is released, and you find yourself in a positive state of mind; is a positive state of mind.

 

It is the creative state of mind.

Now you can act, you can do something.

You always wait the positive moment.

RemeberAct, when you are positive.

Do not force the positivity, wait for it emerges spontaneously.

This is the secret.

When I say: “Learn to transform your poisons in honey”, I mean this!

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